What the Financial Planning Process can teach us about setting New Years Resolutions
January 2nd, 2020
As the year starts, this is the time where you focusing on what should be done for the next 12 months and how these steps align with the financial planning process and goals.
As you know, a new year comes this expectation that we have ‘resolutions’. This means in our quest to start anew, we have pressure to also set a new direction, new goals, new horizons. However, it’s been proven time and time again that most people don’t stick to their resolutions beyond the first month or even the first few weeks. We might have beautiful intentions, but as life happens on a daily and weekly basis, one often loses sights of those early made intentions.
How we Miss the Mark
Here are some thought as to why we often miss our mark:
• We aim high without also developing a method (plan) to get there
• We don’t achieve that state of flow or know how to achieve it
• Making aims from our head, and not consulting the heart as well
• Making those aims from the place of ‘shoulds’, rather than a place where we have a genuine need
• Resistance arises when we don’t align our goals to our values
• One often thinks in absolutes, when we falter in one goal, we feel disappointment and then affects our performance
Falling off the Wagon
Like the financial planning process, the degree to which there is alignment with the client, with their goals, with their vision, is to engage with them. The road-blocks that I mentioned above some of the top reasons why making resolutions for a new year often falters. There is a lack of alignment to reality and the truth. When there is no alignment, then we often fall of the wagon or are easily swayed from our goals at the first sign of trouble because the don’t touch us deeply enough, don’t connect to us deeply enough.
Luckily, there is a better way.
The Financial Planning Process
The best way to success at accomplishing and meeting the goals of clients is to follow baby steps. We often forget that that is the best way to do anything when we are overwhelmed or confused because we are clouded by the confusion about the method. That’s where the financial planning process is as it most powerful; to support and engage clients with the present situation and then taking a succession of steps to get there. That way, you don’t overwhelm.
Be a Baby (not literally)
The best analogy is a baby. The steps that the baby takes are welcomed, each step is a wonder, not to be feared. It’s exciting.
This is because, each step is taken slowly, digested in context. It makes it the smallest possible piece to get just one thing done and not anymore than it needs to for that time.
At the end of the day, this process helps to exponentially increase productivity.
Shore Financial Planning is a fee-only financial planning firm located in Monmouth Beach, NJ.
Joseph Vecchio CPA, CFP®, MBA is the firm’s President and has dedicated his professional life to the finance and accounting professions.
Joe believes that people are being exploited by financial salespeople who are merely motivated by quotas, product sales and commission-based income! Shore Financial Planning was founded to provide peace of mind through conflict-free, value-added advice.